Deja’s View

An open and honest opinion from a worldly woman who understands both men and women.

Welcome to Deja’s View. I hope you find my insight enlightening and entertaining. I decided to contribute to this site because I believe men are getting a bad rap from women and I’d like to help level the playing field.

I’ve spent my life observing people from all walks of life around the world. It was my interest as a child and my career as an adult. My observations have served me well in my personal and professional life.  Now, I wish to share my insights with those astute enough to listen (or in this case, read). The opinions and observations in my column are just that: my opinion, and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the owners and operators of ManCard.com. Having said that read on and enjoy!

I Pity Today’s Single Man

Let’s face it men, there’s just not an abundant amount of “quality” single women out there to choose from. I know. I’m single, I socialize, and I observe. My opinion of the majority of single women is very low. Quite frankly, the majority of them give women like myself (independent, loving, honest, sincere and down right “real”) a bad reputation.

The majority of single women are desperate to find love…not in its purest form, but rather on their terms: He has to have money, he has to have a nice car, he has to take care of me, he can’t be a mamma’s boy, he can love only me (not their children from a previous marriage), he has to worship me, he has to do housework, he has to, he has to, he has to... I wish them all luck. Never once do they mention what they can bring to the relationship table.

The chances of these women finding a good man are pretty slim when they are 30 and 40 pounds overweight and dress like a two dollar hooker on Orange Blossom Trail. And another thing, what’s with the Crayola Crayon make up, padded bra, padded buttocks pants, and body slimmer? Imagine the look of shock and disgust when she removes all the falsities?  If women are 30 or 40 pounds overweight, they should never be allowed to squeeze all that cellulite into a size 2 spandex mini dress.  And when will women learn that no “real” man appreciates a drunken woman… only men looking for a one night stand? I also found that the more attractive a woman is, the more likely she is to be psycho (myself excluded) and controlling!

And the level of desperation these women project is unbelievable. So many have forgotten how to be alone and comfortable in their own skin. After two dates, these women want to control your social calendar and expect you to call ten times a day, even though she is calling you 30 times a day. Today’s women need to grow up… this is not high school. As my aunt always states… they need to become the man they want to marry so they can make it on their own and marry a man for love and nothing else.

I sympathize with you single men out there. You don’t have much to choose from and women out there can and will be deceptive... it’s a fact. I want find love just like the next person, but not at the sacrifice of my dignity, independence, and self esteem. My advice to you single men: Be careful, trust your instincts, and find a nice girl in the book store or grocery store. They are not so desperate and are much more real!

Coming Next…. Deja’s View of Divorce